WHEN A WOMAN'S FED UP
So what's the point of dating??Somebody?? Anybody??...No one has the answer huh?? I've been sitting here wondering why we go through the whole process of the dating. The whole cat and mouse game--it's getting pretty old for me and I'm still young. I like you, You like me, we'll pretend not to, we'll spend time together, goo-goo gaa-gaa, lovie-dovie stuff, you'll eventually find a way to get on my nerves, we'll go back and forth about who did or said what, relationship over. I mean really it's the same everytime. Seems like a complete waste of time if you ask me. I know I sound completely bitter, but this is how I feel at this moment, and I felt like sharing. After all sharing is caring, and I care ;-). Why can't we just meet the "one" and be done with it? Why must we go through this grueling process of dating only to find that it's not gonna work? I think I feel like this because I'm a woman and like most women I'm sick of getting emotionally attached to these guys who can't even remember your birthday. My mother keeps telling me that I need to read that book " He's just not that into You", and I'm starting to believe her. This way I'll be able to see the signs well in advance and move on. IDK tell me what you think...
~LANA~
3 comments:
Moms wrong lol
Read the book: Take Time to Know Him.
That's what counts, and everything happens for reason. Sick of hearing that too right? Seriously though... it's a process- and all the heart ache and lessons learned will have you more than prepared, willing, and ready to handle the right relationsip with the right man the right way.
Words of someone whose tried and failed relationships numerous times but keeps hope alive.
Furthermore, why didn't you post ya poem as a blog so I could comment on it? Geesh! The nerve of you bloggers. lol
I definitely agree, but I think you have to go through all that nonsense in order to appreciate real love when it comes barreling in to your life..and I'm gon be real appreciatice lol, very good post Lana
I agree completely. As someone who has problems even getting to the point of steady dating, I can tell you i've just about given up on love all together. I think it used to be that people were more patient when it came to dating and love and marriage, but now society has put this giant emphasis on instant gratification...when we don't get what we want right away, we think there is no point, or that something is wrong, probably when it isn't. How unfortunate! But what can you do?
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